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Seeking Financial Freedom, Not Just Retirement

Once upon a time, in a way of life that is now nearing extinction, people looked forward to retiring at age 65. Some still do. They’ll stop working and settle into a time of leisure, hobbies, travel and time with the grandkids.

However, for most of us, the age-65 retirement mark will be a blurred or nonexistent line affected by many factors.

The traditional definition of retirement is changing. More and more people—currently 44% according to the Employee Benefit Research Institute (EBRI) 2011 Retirement Confidence Survey 1 —either plan to postpone retirement or not retire at all. Almost three-fourths of all workers (74%) intend to work for some pay after retirement age.

The Outlook

To some degree, attitudes toward retirement are changing out of necessity. Life expectancies are longer, meaning more years of retirement to fund. Our view of a comfortable lifestyle is likely more expensive than our grandparents’, so more dollars are needed each year. Non-work sources of income are questionable. Pensions are almost a thing of the past, and the Social Security system is in danger. No wonder merely 13% of workers believe they will have enough money to live comfortably in their retirement years.

When you hear the word retirement, do you roll your eyes and say, “Yeah. Right!”? With all the disheartening news, not everyone’s motivated to put money away in accounts labeled “retirement.”

The younger crowd might think there’s time to catch up. According to EBRI survey, over 70% of workers ages 25 to 34 say they’ve got less than $25,000 for retirement. At the other end of the scale, what about 60% of workers age 55 or older with less than $100,000 saved? Just 10 years from the typical retirement age, their savings will only last a few years at best.

Time for a New Label

As I mentioned in an earlier blog on mental accounting, labels are important. The label “retirement” has become so uninspiring that our modest savings might not motivate us.

It’s time to rethink retirement and mentally re-label our 401(k) and IRA accounts. Since the age-65 retirement model is on its way out, we’re no longer saving for retirement in the traditional sense. Rather, our real goal is money in the bank—and the resulting freedom:

  • Freedom from the need to trade our life energy for money
  • Freedom to spend time thriving without worrying about surviving
  • Freedom to pursue meaning and happiness

Now you have a Freedom account! It can facilitate life changes long before age 65 and generate happiness much greater than the traditional retirement concept. You can take a sabbatical to travel or change to part-time work to spend more time with your family. You might go back to school for that degree you always wanted or leave your job to start a business you’re passionate about. The possibilities are endless.

Months of Freedom

One problem with retirement savings is measuring progress. Most of us aren’t sure how much we’ll need to save. The survey indicates only 42% of people have even attempted to calculate what they’ll need to retire comfortably. For some, the timeframe is so distant that the amount is a fuzzy moving target on the horizon.

Freedom can be much more measurable. My favorite metric is Months of Freedom:

  1. Calculate your total savings (savings accounts, investment accounts, “retirement” accounts,
    etc.).
  2. Subtract your total consumer debt (credit cards, auto loans, etc.).
  3. Divide by your total monthly spending.

The result is how many months you could survive at your current spending level if you lived off savings alone. That’s months of freedom. The more freedom in the bank, the more choices
you have.

So be inspired! You’re not really saving for retirement. You’re saving for freedom.

Does Money Buy Happiness?

Do you remember that cheesy television series, Lifestyles of the Rich and Famous? The show featured the opulent lifestyles of entertainers, athletes and moguls. We watched the parade of excess for over ten years.

Sometimes we wished we could be like them. At other times, we salved our envy with the question, “Yes, but are they really happy?” We all want the most for our money. After all that hard work and disciplined saving to build wealth, there’s got to be something to show for it. We want to do more than just survive, we want to thrive!

Will Money Make You Happy

According to research from a team led by Nobel laureate Daniel Kahneman, increased income can bring increased happiness—up to a point. Kahneman, a psychologist and pioneer of behavioral economics, identified that point as $75,000 in yearly income for Americans. The study indicated that until household income gets to about $75,000, making more money seems to make us happier. However, increases beyond that amount don’t.

Think of the $75,000 as the average threshold for “enough” among Americans. Once you cross it, chasing more money for money’s sake doesn’t make you happier. In fact, some studies suggest it can actually reduce your happiness. This is not to say that you can’t be happy with a higher or lower income. The difference between being rich and enjoying wealth has a lot to do with the motive that led to your fortune.

Will Achieving Your Goals Make You Happy?

Research led by Edward Deci and Richard Ryan sheds even more light on the money-and- happiness perspective. They found that having any goal increases your likelihood of success, but the type of goals you’re chasing actually determine your happiness level (more on the self-determination theory here). If your ambitions have to do with something extrinsic—like riches or fame—those goals actually won’t make you happy (or happier) even if you achieve them. In contrast, people pursuing more intrinsic goals tend to be happier and more fulfilled. They also tend to achieve their goals. Intrinsic goals involve connecting to something beyond your own little universe, helping people, doing meaningful work and making the world a better place.

Are You Thriving—or Just Surviving?

My Moneymentals course talks about having a “Spend” account and a “Save” account. We can re-name Spend and Save to “Survive” and “Thrive.” Here’s why:

Your Spend account is a lifeline for survival. You need it for things like food, clothing, bills, transportation and basic creature comforts. Hey, I’m sure I’m not the only one who can’t do without a morning cup of coffee! With a new baby at home, it’s a need, not an option.

Whatever your personal non-negotiables are, they’re part of surviving happily. Your Save account helps you accumulate money for thriving. Once you’re meeting your Survive threshold, you enter “survival-plus” mode where you’re saving money to do things that make life meaningful. That’s the Thrive part. Our friend Henry David Thoreau sums it up: “Wealth is the ability to fully experience life.”

The way you use your Thrive money has a tremendous impact on how happy it will make you. Buying to accumulate things or competing with the neighbors can make it appear as if you’ve got more riches, but you’ll get a lousy deal on the happiness factor.

What’s Your Ratio?

You can use money to make you “rich” or to enrich your life. Check to see how much you Survive vs. Thrive by asking yourself what percentage of your earnings, your precious life energy, you use to really Thrive in your life. When you reward yourself for saving, choose something that truly maximizes your happiness.

Mind Your Money: Mental Accounting

Do you like a good magic show? A talented, entertaining magician can create mind-boggling illusions. Little do we know, we do the same—all the time. How else can we go from excellent financial fitness objectives to uninhibited swipes of a credit card in just a few hours? “Now you see it… Now you don’t …”

Our brains often play tricks on us—but by understanding how we think, we can trick ourselves into putting the phenomenon of mental illusions to work! Used correctly, they can help us build wealthy habits and reach important goals.

Optical—and Mental—Illusions

Anybody notice a full moon? When close to the horizon, the moon usually looks much bigger than when it’s high overhead. This has baffled people for decades, but it’s actually an illusion. The moon never changes size, and its distance from the earth is relatively constant.

When the moon is near the horizon, our brain takes into account the earth’s proximity, so the moon looks big. High in the sky, there’s no comparison point, so the moon looks more like actual size on our retina.

Here’s another interesting trick: In the graphic to the right, the orange circle on the far right looks bigger, even though the two orange circles are actually the same size! You can even measure to be sure. Just like the moon, our brain compares the orange circles to their surroundings to determine their size. Though we know the moon’s size and the size of the orange circles are illusions, our brains still have difficulty accepting that. How can we make this quirk contribute to our financial fitness?

Mental Accounting

Mental accounting is about how we think about money. We tend to group money into different mental categories for different purposes, labeling them in our heads. My mother took this a step further by keeping cash in various pockets in her wallet and purse. She designated one for groceries, one for emergencies and one for her weekly mahjong game. Perhaps your family does something similar.

From a rational point of view, a dollar is a dollar, regardless of how we receive it or label it. Despite this, our brains accept the illusion we create for ourselves with mental accounts.

Downside

Here’s how the illusion can detract from financial fitness:

  • We’re more likely to blow a windfall—like an inheritance or lottery winning—than money received in a regular paycheck. Tax-return and bonus money can also spend very fast!
  • We’re more willing to use a credit card than part with the equivalent cash.
  • We’re more likely to spend investment dividends than appreciation in value.

Is this “free money”? Personal finance says all dollars are the same, but our minds don’t.

Positive Results

While it can influence us to act unwisely, mental accounting can also help us achieve important financial fitness goals. For example, we’re less likely to spend money we label “retirement” or “kids college account” on a plasma screen TV.

Similarly, people who save too well and miss opportunities to enjoy life in the present can designate an account as “fun” or “spoil yourself” as an incentive to live it up a bit more. Anyone who has a parent or grandparent who lived through the Great Depression or in poverty has probably noticed this tendency toward extreme frugality.

Mental accounting pays great dividends as a tool for self-control. We trick ourselves into wealthy habits and doing the right thing! Budgeting methods are rooted in mental accounting, because we know we’ll spend one piece of the pie on food, another on transportation and soon. By reserving each category for its purpose, bills get paid and the entire paycheck doesn’t go out the window on a whim.

A key principle behind Moneymentals is to work with, rather than try to change, our human nature with respect to financial goals. Take a little time to understand yourself and how you mentally position your finances, and the recommendations in this course can help you do some good money magic!

Four Reasons Why Traditional Budgets Don’t Work

Have you tried and tried to create a budget and stick to it?

Is it working for you?

If you are reading this blog post, probably not.

There are many reasons why your budget may not be working, but you are not alone. Only 32% of U.S. households have a budget- in spite of almost half of Americans feeling anxious about finances. Let’s take a look at some of the common reasons why budgets tend to fail:

Budgets make you deal with too much at once, all the time.
Like dieting, if you dive headfirst into a sudden “all or nothing” approach to your finances, you’re setting yourself up for a very short-term success. Making a change is good, often necessary, in order to get results, but when you make such sudden and restrictive changes anywhere in your life, you’re much more likely to fall back into your old habits, and feel like a failure for it.

Budgets assume an almost infinite amount of self control.
According to this study from the Journal of Consumer Psychology, self-control is not limitless. If we use our self-control in one area (like finances), the study suggests that we end up sacrificing it in another area. One example in the study was two groups that were given a set of problems to solved showed that the group who was also trying to resist cookies gave up trying to solve the problems faster. When a significant portion of our self-control is being used in one area of our lives, it’s more likely that we’ll fail to show willpower in another area.

Thinking of life month by month is not a great way to manage your life.
When people draft their budgets, they often forget to account for non-monthly expenses, like doctor’s appointments, holidays, or even that unexpected events like emergencies will come up. Also, it can be hard to think of big, long term goals like home ownership and retirement with a budget. A more accurate budget has to incorporate irregular and large future expenses can get overwhelming fast.

Budgets can feel restrictive.
Most people have a preconceived association with the word “budget,” much like the word “diet.” Whether or not you consciously realize it, when you decide to create a budget, you could be creating a negative association in your mind. And, like most things, if you don’t have a positive mindset towards it, you are less likely to stick to it.

While it may seem like the general concept of budgeting should be simple, the reality is a bit more complex.

The good news is there are better ways to approach your financial goals. According to this article (and others), some strategies include breaking your big goals into smaller ones, and approaching your new money mindset as something that will bring you future joy, rather than cause deprivation and suffering. When I created my course, I made sure not to use budgets for many of these reasons.

So please know you can have financial success without a budget. I know I do.

If you have financial goals you’re working toward, and are tired of the pitfalls of budgeting, check out our Moneymentals course!